"Funny, You Don't Look Jewish"

Having the name, Kevin Patrick Kersey (yes, my middle name is Patrick), a good English/Irish name, usually means I have to explain to someone how I can be Jewish. And no, it's not through conversion.

According to Jewish Law (Halakhah), Jewishness is passed down through the mother. My maternal grandmother (Sarah Zitnick) was born into a Jewish home. Both her parents were Jews from the Ukraine. They came to America in the early 1900s. My grandmother was born in Chicago, which made her the first American in her family. She had an older brother, my Uncle Al, who was born in the Ukraine.

While the family was observant when they came to America, it did not last long. The story I heard was that they sent for my great-great-grandmother to come to America. When she got here, she was refused entry because she had an eye infection (probably something like "pink eye") and had to go back to the Ukraine. Either on the way back, or shortly after she got back, she died. This was hard on my great-grandmother spiritually and it was because of this she declared, "There is no G-d." From then on, the family, while keeping Jewish traditions, would certainly not be considered very observant.

An event happened when my grandmother Sarah was a little girl that sparked her curiosity about religion. It was around Hannukah/Christmas time and she brought something related to Hannukah for Show & Tell. Afterward, one of her classmates came up to her, slapped her, and said, "You killed Jesus." This stunned my grandmother because she didn't know who Jesus was, and she was pretty sure she hadn't killed him. She went home and asked her mother who Jesus was. Her mother slapped her and said, "Never mention that name in this house again." Sarah was slapped twice for someone she didn't know, had never met, and certainly never killed. But this did make her start to wonder who this "Jesus" person was.

After high school, she met and married my grandfather, Ralph Wooding, who was not Jewish. This did bother some in her family, and I heard that some of her family would not even walk on the same side of the street with her. But since she was not religious, marrying a gentile was not a big deal for her and her immediate family. Sarah and Ralph went on to have three children, the oldest of which was my mother.

When my mom was about 13 or so, my grandfather decided it was time they start going to church. There was a small church down the street from them, and within a few months, they had all become believers. At this time, in the 1940s, when a Jew came to believe that Jesus was the Jewish Messiah, it was accepted practice that they forsake their Jewish heritage and culture and culturally become Christian. And so my mother and her family all became "Christian", even though according to Jewish law, they were still Jewish by birth (except for my grandfather). And because my mother is Jewish by birth, then so am I (and my siblings).

Now for my dad. My father, Earl Kersey was born in a small town in Oklahoma called Oilton. He joined the Navy in WWII and served in the South Pacific. He was hoping to make the Navy a career, but contracted TB and was given a medical discharge. He felt G-d was calling him into the ministry as a Southern Baptist pastor. For some reason, he had always had a love for the Jewish people, even to the point that he prayed that G-d would give him a Jewish wife. In the 1950s, he went to a small Baptist college in Southern California, where he met... you guessed it, my mom. My mom had decided to go to the college because her boyfriend at the time said he was going to go there. He never did, but she met my dad there, and they were the first couple to be married in the chapel of California Baptist College.

While her Jewishness was never a big deal for my mom, it was for my dad. When I was in my early twenties, my dad told me about a man named Zola Levitt, and a movement called "Hebrew Christianity". This sparked something in me to learn more about my Jewish heritage. In my studies, I learned of Messianic Judaism, which had evolved out of Hebrew Christianity.

Hebrew Christianity began in the 1800s as Christians of Jewish birth began to believe that accepting Jesus did not mean they had to deny their Jewishness, and that believing that Jesus was the Jewish Messiah was in fact, a very "Jewish" thing to do. Messianic Jews took that even further and believed that not only was it Jewish to believe in Jesus, but that it was incumbent upon them to retain Jewish religious traditions and cultural identity. They started referring to Jesus by his Hebrew name, Yeshua.

As I learned more about Messianic Judaism, I felt this was the path I should take. Even though I was raised "Christian", I believed it was the right thing for me to reclaim my Jewish heritage and began living as a Jew. Instead of observing Christmas, Easter, etc., I now began observing Passover, Rosh haShana, Yom Kippur and the other Jewish holidays.

I met my wife (Roni) at a Messianic conference and we were married under the "chuppah"at a Messianic synagogue. We go to Shul (synagogue) Saturday mornings and observe the Jewish holidays. When I was in my 40s, I finally had my Bar Mitzvah.

And that is why a man named Kevin Patrick Kersey is very much a Jew. I know some in the Jewish community will not accept this, but my beliefs are between me and G-d, not me and the Rabbis, and they are the result of extensive study. And that is why, even though my name is not Jewish, I am a Jew.

If you would like to understand the foundations for my beliefs, I would encourage you to read some position papers that my Rabbi has written. You can find them here:

http://bethelnyc.org/category/theology

Clinical Trial Testing - Part II

On Wednesday, I had my second round of tests. First a chest X-ray, followed up by a PET/CT scan. Of course I had to drink some barrium, but they had this chocolate flavoured stuff that wasn't horrible. It wasn't great, but it wasn't horrible. Of course it did have the "side effects" of normal, yucky tasting barrium, but that's another story.



So all the tests are done. We are now just waiting to meet with the doctor to discuss results. We also need to meet with the doctor who will be doing the bead insertions. If all that goes well, next week at this time, I should be full of macrobeads, and resting comfortably in a hospital bed.

Clinical Trial Testing - Part 1

Today I had my first round of testing to determine if I will be eligible for the Macrobead Clinical Trial.

First I had my blood drawn. I think they took about 7 pints of blood. And I never exaggerate.

They also took nasal and saliva swabs. Did a EKG. Tested skin for any allergic reactions to the mouse cells, and noted all of the vitals (weight, height, temp, blood pressure, etc.)

Next steps will be a chest x-ray and CT/PET scan on Wednesday.

Hopefully we will know by the end of the week what the results are, and if I will be a candidate for the trial.

Clinical Trial Update

Today I met with the doctor who is leading the clinical trial I have mentioned before on this blog. He believes I am a candidate for the trial and so we are moving on to the next steps.

Next week I will have my blood drawn for lab work, and for a chest x-ray and a CT/PET scan. Next I will meet with the surgeon who will be doing the macrobeads insertion. If everything looks good, I will probably have the surgery on June 4th.

I don't know if I mentioned this before, but for the past couple of months, I have been having a pain in my left ribs. It seems the pain is hitting some nerves, so the pain radiates through my lower back, left shoulder and arm. It has been pretty consistent and steady for awhile now. Sometimes tolerable, sometime excruciating. My oncologist prescribed Oxyocodone for me, which helps a little, but wears off after a few hours. Plus I'm not crazy about taking all of those drugs, but it's the only thing that gives me some relief. The pain also keeps me up at night, which means I need to take Ambien to help me sleep. All of that did effect me on our trip to Australia, but we still had a great trip, and I'll talk about that trip in another post.

As the clinical trial progresses, I'll keep you all updated as to how things go.

Kevin

Freedom of Spirit

As most, or some of you should know by now, Roni and I spent two weeks in Australia. We started in Brisbane, and after driving about 3000 Kms (you can do the math), we ended up in Cairns.

One of our stops was in Charters Towers Australia, where I lived from 1973 to 1976. In Charters Towers, we met an Aborigine artist, who remembers my family from when we used to live there. She was only a little girl at the time, so I don't remember her, but we have become Facebook friends and have kept in touch that way for the past year or so.

While visiting Tania, she presented Roni and me with a painting she did. One of the things with Aborigine paintings, is that they always come with a "story", and Tania always seems to find the story of her paintings after she paints them. She said she did ours in about 3 days, and after finishing it, she "saw" the story in it.

Below is the painting, and the story:



Freedom of Spirit – Berrenge Nahn (pronounced: Berren-gay Narn)

For Kevin and Roni Kersey

This painting is a spiritual representation of the sense of peace and freedom you derive from riding your motorcycle.

The central and inner circles represent the journey.

The two dots in each corner, represent the 2 of you as you ride along together.

The smaller circles at the bottom and at the top represent the wheels and the journey to and from your destination.

The smaller dots dark brown and yellow ochre represent all the beauty that you have witnessed as you look in every direction, as far as the eye can see.

The blue background represents fresh air and wind “May all your travels happen beneath clear blue skies.”

The yellow dots represent the sun on your face.

The white dots signify safety and security.

The dark brown around the outer edges represent the road under your wheels.

The three inner red circles represent the sun set at the end of the day.

The black and orange dots represent your beloved Harley Davidson.

Artist’s Name: Tania Ault

Lore Name: Dillinga (Silver Brogla)

Clan Name: Mgulakai Pronounced: Mul-a-ky (Sun Light People)

Tribe: Kudjala/Gudjal

Home Town: Charters Towers, North Queensland, Australia